The happiest man I know has a wife who makes more money than he does. He works out all day and used his own income as he sees fit. His secret is that he’s cool enough to contribute to the relationship in ways other than money. If his neighbor made fun of him he’d just laugh at the poor jealous bastard. Climbing and MMA gyms are full of this type of guy. The question is not, “is it okay if she earns more”The question is, “is haveing a wife with a good career right for me?”.